add: orchestrator design doc (#2543)

This document is intended to capture the philosophy and ideas
underpinning the current state of the orchestrator and should grow
alongside the orchestrator.

Abhinav requested something like this and I think it'll be helpful for
future people.

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Co-authored-by: John DiSanti <jdisanti@amazon.com>