libvfio-user: Slurp the calloc-transposed-args fix for gcc >= 14

Change-Id: If837129c199f2fe3878076b7910a035aa236c7a4
Signed-off-by: Michal Berger <michal.berger@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.spdk.io/gerrit/c/spdk/spdk/+/24583


Community-CI: Mellanox Build Bot
Reviewed-by: John Levon <levon@movementarian.org>
Tested-by: SPDK CI Jenkins <sys_sgci@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jim Harris <jim.harris@samsung.com>
Reviewed-by: Changpeng Liu <changpeliu@tencent.com>