nvme: use transport internal queue state when deleting unfinished IO queue pair

The NVMe bdev module enables asynchronous IO QP creation by default, after
calling `spdk_nvme_ctrlr_alloc_io_qpair` and `spdk_nvme_ctrlr_connect_io_qpair`,
the queue pair is in connecting state at the beginning, then users may call
`spdk_nvme_ctrlr_free_io_qpair` immediately, and the common layer will
change queue state to NVME_QPAIR_DISCONNECTING and NVME_QPAIR_DESTROYING,
so in function `nvme_pcie_ctrlr_delete_io_qpair` the workaround to wait
for create cq/sq callbacks will not be called, instead of using the common
layer queue state here, we should use the internal `pcie_state`.

Fix #2245.

Change-Id: I801caf26563464b135035bf7fa2f63def13de9f4
Signed-off-by: Changpeng Liu <changpeng.liu@intel.com>
Reviewed-on: https://review.spdk.io/gerrit/c/spdk/spdk/+/10445


Reviewed-by: Dong Yi <dongx.yi@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Aleksey Marchuk <alexeymar@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Jim Harris <james.r.harris@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Monica Kenguva <monica.kenguva@intel.com>
Tested-by: SPDK CI Jenkins <sys_sgci@intel.com>