nvmf: increase QID retry period from 100us to 1ms

The original 100us value was picked out of thin air, since
we didn't have a good repro vehicle. Since we've seen this
at least once more since the original patch was merged,
increase the value to 1ms. There is no harm waiting a bit
longer before responding to the CONNECT in this very rare
case.

Fixes issue #2955.

Signed-off-by: Jim Harris <jim.harris@samsung.com>
Change-Id: Icbe97c179c96deea93f7097f8443362e7873f4bb
Reviewed-on: https://review.spdk.io/gerrit/c/spdk/spdk/+/21383


Community-CI: Mellanox Build Bot
Reviewed-by: Aleksey Marchuk <alexeymar@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tomasz Zawadzki <tomasz.zawadzki@intel.com>
Tested-by: SPDK CI Jenkins <sys_sgci@intel.com>