Fix new runtime crate handling in SDK patcher tool (#3475)

The SDK runtime patcher tool used during smithy-rs release to detect
semver breaks was breaking due to the new aws-smithy-wasm crate since it
had a bad assumption in the logic to determine if a runtime crate
changed. This PR corrects that logic to state the runtime crate doesn't
need patching if it didn't exist previously.

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